There are few concepts in life that we have to understand because we did this whether it is consciously or unconsciously. We forgive and forget easily. Does that makes us less than a human because we're giving people second chances that easy? Yup. True that. It is not second chance if keep on forgiving and forgetting things. It's more likely become second, third, fourth chances.
One thing that I once ponder about is why do people keep on giving second chances?
simply because the outcome of the first chance might be different from the second chance.
the second chance's outcome is different from the third chance.
and the cycle goes on and on and on...
Things like this mostly happen in relationship. yes, indeed. we keep on giving second chances hoping that the outcome might be different and that would be the outcome that want and we expect it to end up as. but shit happens. we're being selfish. we're being too emotional. we're being immature. we're going against the nature. why? simply because we're just another human that never lose hope. Hoping for some miracles to happen. Hoping that there will be a happy ending for our story. Hoping that we don't have to go through another shit phase in life. but one thing that we forget to do is to give our self another chance to fix us, to give our self a chance to not to keep on trying and the most important part is to give our self the chance to give up on things that we know can never happen and start to appreciate what we have and keep what is willing to stay with us through our ups and downs.
Selfish to have something all by yourself? No it's not. it's human nature.
ideservesasecondchancetoo;
amelia marsani
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