It has been a very loooooongggg time since the last time and yess, I miss you too :3 muahaha. skip that part. Well, been veryy awesomely shizzzlilingggzy busy with a lot of things, projects after another, events after another, assignment submissions, quizzes and test. At one point, I just wish that I could end things by getting married by hey, that will never solve any problems but in fact, menambah nambah headache and heartache lagi ada. loll. kidding.
Okay, what's with people?
First and foremost, I'm only 21 but the thing here is I've been dealing with many people from different social hierarchy, different background and even different way of viewing things. Be it students, lecturers, businessman, youngsters, makcik jual kerepek, pakcik berniaga jeruk and whatnot. They're all people. But how they resemble their community and how they express their thoughts might differ from others. The higher you are in the social hierarchy, less manners you would apply when you interact with others. Not saying that they're all the same and my hypothesis applied to everyone in the community but I'm very sure that if it is not most then, probably half of the community would be.
Some people learn life the hard way and that makes them what they are. They tend to appreciate things and others the way they want to be appreciated. Afraid of hurting others' feelings as well as they never want others to hurt their feelings. My respect goes to these kind of people whom would put themselves in other's shoes before they start to point their fingers on others, discuss before raising up an issue that might cause riot and affects others as well. Sometimes, those who managed to apply manners and do such things are those who came from the lowest group of the social hierarchy. Believe it or not, they are indeed. Perhaps, hardships in life taught them to respect in order to gain respect from others compared to those who are comfortable with their own status and decided to gain respect without giving. Pathetic isn't it?
Another questions that keep on playing in my mind is that why is it important to please people by showing the other part of you that's not you? why can't you just be yourself? I think it's in everyone that pleasing others is more important than pleasing our dear self. To fit into something that's not where you belong to. I've seen many of these people but it saddens me that I can do nothing because I'm in this category too. hahahaihh. At some point of your life, you might want to ditch everyone and live in your own world, ignore all the BS that others might throw to you for at least you're in your comfortable zone. Sometimes it's good to be in a condition where you can feel nothing because you never want to, being a free soul that no one ever dares to say a thing to you and comes hell or wtv forms of BS, you're there with you alone and not affected by the machines that is used by people which happens to be their tongue.
Oh well, to tell stories about people behavior might cause me a thesis or a research. Might as well I stop here and pretend to become the silent observer. One more thing, it is fun to see people that we used to know becoming someone that they say they will never become. Thank you very much :) I did enjoy the show. lewlss
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