Yes and No?

Hello handsome faces and pretty ladies :D It's been a while since my last post. Hectic days and busy sem break. well, they're just reasons though. hehe. I've plenty to share but I'm out of my writing mood. So, here it goes, updates from me ;P

1. Went to Indonesia and bad luck me, not even a day I landed there, I was snatched, Well, takde rezeki kot. Lost couple of hundred bucks, IC, bank cards and etc. Had difficulties to renew my bank cards and Jabatan Pendaftaran Negara sekat here and there I feel like killing them all just because I lost my IC abroad so yeah, whatever~
2. My taekwondo's coach called me and informed me that they will drop my name from MASUM team due to my injury and that only means no extra allowance for me. sad news :(
3. I've got myself a part time job as a writer for a website after submitting a sample article which I made the night before its due date. Thanks to Kak Farhana for encouraging me to submit a piece of my writing product. hehe.
4. trying my luck to represent USM to Istanbul. The interview will be held on the 3rd and 4th of March :3

okay done with updates. So, whatsupp? 

I've been observing the 'kahwin muda' trend lately. Okay, let me make things clear first and foremost. I'm not an activist or fighting for women's right or anything related. It's just that I kinda like not a big fan or I'm not that into getting married at the age of early twenties perhaps? to put it into simpler words, I'm against early marriage. No offense even though my mum was 19 and my dad was 25 when they were married.

well, marriage vs. wedding. They're two different things. huge differences. 

Wedding.

It takes you as long as you want to be prepared for A MEMORABLE DAY. You're up at the highest cloud.   Its all about 'aaaahhh''uuuuuuu''omaigodd bestnyaaa' and yadayada~

Marriage.

It takes you your whole life to suck all the sugar and spice, flying pots and pans, a prince charming once that turns into a beast after couple of years, endless ka ching! problem and bla bla bla

*that would be me kicking my spouse. hehe*

COMMITMENT.RESPONSIBILITY

That's what you signed for. well, pretty much you're bonded to serve your husband and kids at the age where you can actually do things for yourself. I'm not saying that once you get married, you're tied to one guy and you're not free to do whatever you want but there will be an invisible line, which restrict you from doing things just because someone says NO. 

Everyone will have their own opinions. How are they going to end their single life, how are they going to start the new chapter of their lives, how many kids they wanna give birth to, umur berapa nak kahwin, nak kahwin dekat mana and such but for once, do ask yourself questions like don't you have anything to achieve in life? are you satisfied with how much you have contribute to your parents? because as far as i know, once you're married, your loyalty goes to your husband. NOT your parents. And the most important question is, will the guy that you marry guide you, treat you the way you should be treated, love you till your last breath, be with you through the ups and downs of your marriage life, and you yourself are prepared for a new daily routine? full time housewife, part time maid, full time employee and blablabla. It's not just about sharing bed and having a new housemate. It's more than that. well prepared for that?

Not being a pessimist neither not believe in marriage. It's a lie if I say that I don't wanna get married and have couple of kids but you know, that will only happen when I'm satisfied enough with my lifetime achievement  which will take couple of years. I believe many of us will have different opinions regarding this issue but yeah, rich parents, employed future husband with stable life and there you go, you're still on your way grabbing your degree scroll. That sounds okay lah kot. but kalau you're 12, you quit school because you're prepared to get married with 18 year old guy who lives with parents' income then think twice. 

Employed husband can definitely survive if anything happen to your marriage. How about full time housewife? custody? who's gonna feed you IF your husband leave you for another girl. Love fades, feelings change, polygamy is allowed. And there you go, left behind with awful heartbreak, kids to feed with no income source and an ex-husband who's having his good time with his new wife or girlfriend. 

So girls, if you punya boyfriend masuk meminang esok, will it be a YES or a NO?