Since I have 7 days gap till my next paper, here goes another post! Believe it or not, as a human being we never failed to live up to everyone's expectation.
Never failed to prove that we are always right and they are always wrong.
Never failed to observe and to judge.
Never failed to hurt and to be hurt.
Never failed to look down on others and
Of course never failed to fail ourselves.
So, what are words?
I'm making it extremely simple. Thoughts that you decide to share with your audience. Be it text or talk.
True enough that words are more powerful than the sword itself. Logically, you never know whether you've hurt someone or not by your words because the wound that you caused technically, they're invisible. You never know unless you purposely blurt out your words to hurt your audience or the specific someone told you so. But hey, it will never be like
'Dude, your words hurt me damn it'
And of course, s/he won't expect
'oh really? sorry man'
comes from you really.
Here goes few kind of people that you might think is okay to be like and normal to be like.What's not normal about it is how they keep the conversation going by being them. Well, this may only works for me. I'm not sure bout others but hey, I believe that more or less it works for almost all of us ey?
1) the know it all
you should keep your knowledge to yourself and chew 'em up. Didn't you were taught to respect others by not simply interrupt others' speech? Well, it is never wrong to know everything but come on. Have some chill pill. You may know a lot of things but it is never a sin to keep them to yourself and let others share theirs? After all, you've been dealing with books and facts most of the time (judging by the amount of general knowledge that you have), it's time to make some friends. Chill okay?
2) dominant
well, there are some people that thought they are the ones that should control the conversation. Uh-oh, you're doing it wrong. It is not an alien situation whereby these kind of people tend to downgrade others just to make them feel dominant and yeah, always the one that everyone will look up for.
3) the f*** s*** dam* it
cool and not cool. Kind of normal but not too much please. Depends on the audience.
I can no longer think. Okay. Put it this way, there are many reasons to always filter your words before you blurt them out regardless the situation that you're in. Think before you talk. What would you feel if wtv that you said are the ones that you received? sad? angry? damn it these people deserve a hard smack on their face?
in the end... you know what will happen. You'll give your poker face and swallow those shit in. Can't say a word bout it because they're your friends, and some even strangers. That's not really the real reason. The ones who said nothing are mostly the ones who respect you as a human being with a tiny flesh that is known as heart and of course they want to keep wtv relationship that you have longer. One more thing, they're matured enough to not to ruin things by saying so. By saying 'YES, YOU F*UCKING HURT MY FEELINGS'
Life is damn simple and damn easy. Do things that you want others do to you. Treat others the way you want to be treated. And of course, I myself is not perfect. I speak words that might not be decent for others to hear but never in my intention to use words that I know may leave you mad at me. Truth be told, the ones that you think have the coldest expression, the heartless heart, the loudest laugh, they're the ones that care too much and hurt the most. Think twice before you speak. As wise words speak ' do unto others as others unto you'.
p/s: I'm not really aware of what I've wrote. Pardon me for this anger has taken over my real self.
